The "Bro Zone"

  The "Bro Zone"- when a girl gets put in the friend zone by a guy and is the best friend 99% of the time opposed to being the girlfriend 1% of the time

  The "Bro Zone" is where I'm at. For as long as I can remember, I have always been in the bro zone. I assure you, it's not because I'm too bro like, or tom boy, or just undateable. From what i hear through my friends and close guy friends, in all honesty, guys think im cute, or hot, or attractive whatever. (I'm simply restating what I have heard. Please don't judge me for big headedness, or egomania) They all know I'm really chill and easy to talk to. They know I'm dependable and not shallow. But even though, I'm stuck in the bro zone. The stupid bro zone.
  Every guy I have ever liked, has put me in the bro zone. I will flirt and get to know them. I will get so comfortable and close, and then find out through all this time they started to like one of my girlfriends instead. It's hard, and it's even harder when I help them get with them. I am one of those people who are above getting mad about liking my ex/guy i currently like or "following the code." I am one of those people who believes everyone deserves to have what will make them happy. So as the best friend I am, I help them get close to those girls they like while secretly crying myself to sleep. I will always be the girl listening to him complain about the girl I wish I could be. Dark, i know, but it's just the truth.
  Recently, I've kinda had a crush on this guy for like a year. We hit it off after a while in the beginning of summer, but then we just kind of stopped talking. We were still best friends after, but then recently he started to act exactly like he did when he liked me, so i started to like him too. Well, turns out I read it all wrong. (oops) I found out when he told me he liked this freshman girl. I wasn't bitter, but it did sting. I was giving him advice of what he should do, how to find things to talk to her about, and just advice like that. He still has no idea. Kinda hurts to think about, but life goes on right? Hopefully one day outside of the bro zone.
  I admit, I feel like a hypocrite because I put guys in the friend zone all the time. The guys who like me are the guys who literally are like family. They just aren't my type. I see where this turns around on me. The guys I like probably think the same about me. The thing is, I'm picky about who I like or date. I have to have a physical attraction for me to consider liking them, or some emotional attraction I can't explain. I don't have that attraction very often. I'm a person who always has more guy friends then girl friends but I get along with everyone. Usually, the only guys I like are the ones who I have an attraction to off the bat. You know, when I first meet them. Otherwise, from there on out I will just think of them as a friend. A different relationship will be built.
  I don't quite understand why I am always stuck in the bro zone. Maybe someday someone can explain it to me, but until then the "bro zone" sucks. I am always here. So guys out there, if you want me, I'll be in the bro zone.